Holidays With His Ex

Dear Terry: My boyfriend of 10 months is 55, and I am 32. We have a lot in common and really enjoy each other's company. We are happy an...

He Wants to Commit...Just Not Now

Terry, I've dated this this man for 3 years, but before hand we were best friends and he waited on me while I explored, and that damaged...

He Loves His Wife, But She's Always Annoyed at Him

Hi, Terry- I'm kind of confused as to what to do. I've been with my wife for over 10 years. We met in 1998 (started dating August of...

Things to Know Before You Agree to Marry Him

Dear Terry, I always feel happy reading your blog and your newsletters as well! I read these two points in your newsletter: 1) "Which b...

Book Review: Don't Ever Call Me, Ma'am!

I never get it when people, particularly women, worry about their age. I don�t understand why they consider themselves less attractive or le...

It's Not True Love, It's Low Self-Esteem

Terry, I had a one-year relationship with a man that I instantly hit it off with from our first date. We dated for four months and then cir...

Are Men More Likely to Be Jerks?

If you believe what you hear from the media, you might think so. The December issue of First cited studies claiming that if a married woman ...

Younger Men Like Older Women

Ever feel that getting older makes you less attractive? Well, who could blame you? That myth is foisted upon us by the media every day. (It ...

When a Woman Earns More, Her Man Aims to Please

Brian Alexander, the author of America Unzipped: In Search of Sex and Satisfaction , details his findings about sex and economics . He writ...

Stop Attracting Dysfunctional Men

If you keep attracting men who don't make you happy, check out Dating Coach Ronnie Ann Ryan's response to the writer who emailed to ...

He Wants a Good Woman

Sometimes I get mail from women who insist that men don't want to commit, so it was interesting to find this bit from a guy who says he ...

She's Not Comfortable With His Affection

Terry, I met a warm, friendly guy a few months ago. His conversations are interesting, and he's handsome. Problem (or is it?): The few t...

He's Perfect (On Paper)

Question: Been seeing Mr. Perfect On Paper: shared interests, activities, achievements, values. But neither of us seems passionate about get...

He Broke Up With Her to Please His Family

Hello, I'm so confused about something. My ex-boyfriend, and I "broke up" about a month ago. We had a great relationship - ver...

Hey, Terry- I've got some issues here. I'm in a long distance relationship. Actually, this guy was my childhood friend and we connec...

You Can Change Your Life

Dear Terry: At 18 I had a love at first sight relationship, and we were great friends, but after two years on-and-off, we ended it. I had a ...

He Wants Her to Do Things He's Not Willing to Do For Her

Dear Terry- I am dating a nice guy, but I AM feeling a big BUT here. I don't know why. Something just doesn't feel right about all...

An Omen That They're Not Meant to Be?

Terry- My boyfriend popped the question that we should live together. Right afterward, I fell and broke my wrist. His come-on line was. ...

Are You Working Too Hard for Love?

How hard to you have work for love? If you listen to pop radio, you have to work really, really hard for it. Right now, there's a hit si...

SWR Blog Crawl: If You Feel Good About Yourself, DO IT!

Today is Day 4 of the first-ever Single Women Rule blog crawl (which is kind of like a pub crawl with blogs instead of pubs), so if this is...

He Said He Might Marry Her. Then He Disappeared

Hi Terry, I've been trying to figure out how to post a question on your blog, but being completely clueless when it comes to blogs, I ha...

She Doesn't Want to Seem Too Eager

Hi Terry, I have to say, after reading your (amazing!) e-book I feel like I've opened Pandora's box haha!. Seriously though, all m...

He Asked Her to Be 'Exclusive,' and Now He's Backing Off

Hi Terry! I have scored the most perfect Prince Charming ever! The first couple months went great (it was all like you said - HE did everyt...

She Worries About American Women

Dear Terry: It disturbs me how much American women just LIVE for the big wedding day .. and being MARRIED. There is more to life than bouque...

She Thinks She Has a Problem With Men

Hi, Terry- Thanks for your emails. I�d really appreciate some advice from you. I think I have a problem with guys � they always seem to be i...

Surviving a Break-Up

A reader wrote to recommend the following video, in which makeup artist Kandee Johnson gives advice on getting over an ex. Kandee's tips...

Online Dating: When Should He Offer to Pick Her Up?

Hi Terry! I read your book, began visualizing, listing, etc., and lo and behold a seemingly nice guy has materialized (wow!). Ok, so my qu...

She's Waiting For a Man to Get a Divorce and Marry Her

Hi, Terry- I liked your book. It's simple and straightforward in the good sense. I love it that you dispelled the American cultural myth...

How Does She Get Over Him?

Dear Terry, I've a huge crush on this friend of mine. We initially met online through a music community we both signed up for. He recent...

The Woodstock Couple, 40 Years Later

What a great story. Check it out. Visit msnbc.com for Breaking News , World News , and News about the Economy

It's Raining Men

Dear Terry, I am findng that I am starting to attract kinder, more spiritual guys which is wonderful. The problem is I am still very cautiou...

When He Says He Needs Space

I apologize again for not posting as frequently as usual lately. I also apologized two months ago , and I'm still having trouble getting...

Radiating 'Specialness' to Attract Men

Hi Terry, I love reading your somewhat daily e-mails and respect your opinion and advice. However, I recently located to a new city and sta...

Great Cheap Date Ideas

Jim Wang of Bargaineering ran a list of ideas for cheap dates on his very excellent blog, which offers all kinds of tips for making the mos...

Is He Worth It?

Dear Terry, Love your blog and your perception of the bleedingly obvious..so hope you can help me. I will keep it brief..I visualised and me...

She's Visualizing Love But Getting No Takers

Hi Terry, I've been practicing your visualization techniques daily (quite enjoyably I might say) and have no problem with that part. He...